The Life I Want Probably Looks More Like Me
May 07, 2026
A reflection on slowly realising that the life I want may not come from becoming someone else — but from building a life that feels more...
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Am I Choosing… or Being Pulled?
April 09, 2026
Exploring the subtle difference between choice and compulsion — and how the nervous system quietly pulls us toward what feels familiar, not necessarily what moves our...
Read More →Can Connection Exist Without Earning It?
April 04, 2026
Letting go of the belief that love must be earned — and learning to trust that real connection doesn’t require performance or sacrifice.
Read More →Not Escaping My Life
March 24, 2026
What it actually looks like to stop escaping life — not by changing everything, but by showing up honestly within it.
Read More →How Much Praise Can I Actually Hold?
March 24, 2026
A moment of receiving praise — and noticing the exact point where it becomes too much to hold.
Read More →I Don’t Need to Finish My Life — I Need to Live It While It’s Unfinished
March 23, 2026
A quiet realisation that I don’t need to complete every part of my life before I start living it — I can live fully, even while...
Read More →The Grief of Not Being Everything
March 21, 2026
Letting go of the need to prove my worth, and learning to live within my limits without shame.
Read More →Direction Over Certainty
March 21, 2026
A reminder that I don’t need to solve my life — just move in the right direction and trust myself to figure it out along the...
Read More →The Grief of Not Being Everything
March 21, 2026
Letting go of the need to prove my worth, and learning to live within my limits without shame.
Read More →The Difference Between Attraction and Desire
March 19, 2026
Learning the difference between attraction and desire changed the way I think about relationships and how connection actually grows.
Read More →Sex, Touch, and Connection: The Needs I Used to Confuse
March 17, 2026
Learning the difference between sex, touch, and emotional connection changed how I understand my own needs.
Read More →The Best Parts of Me Are Also the Hardest Parts
March 15, 2026
A reflection on learning that the traits that cause difficulty in life are often the same traits that make creativity and originality possible.
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