Being Truly Held
June 06, 2025
True holding isn’t loud or dramatic. It’s quiet, steady, and sometimes the most healing thing of all.
It doesn’t always look like fireworks.
Sometimes, being held is quiet.
Steady.
Unremarkable to the outside world — but everything you never knew you needed.
There’s no grand arrival.
No cinematic breakthrough.
No music swelling behind a dramatic embrace.
Just… stillness.
Warmth.
Presence.
✏️ Journal Prompt:
When was the last time I felt truly safe — even in a small way?
What did that moment feel like in my body?
🤝 This Is What Safety Feels Like
It’s the message that says, “You don’t need to explain.”
It’s the silence that isn’t awkward.
It’s the deep breath your nervous system didn’t know it was holding — finally released.
Being held isn’t about being rescued.
It’s about being witnessed — and not left.
✏️ Journal Prompt:
Who in my life has stayed — not just physically, but emotionally?
What does “being witnessed” mean to me?
💛 What I Know Now
I used to think love had to be big.
Loud.
Intense.
Proving itself at every turn.
But real love — the kind that holds — feels different.
It’s simple.
Soft.
Safe.
But it changes everything.
It says:
“You don’t have to hold it all alone anymore.”
And this time…
I believe it.
✏️ Final Reflection:
What part of me is still holding everything alone?
Can I imagine letting someone hold even just a little of it with me?