I Want to Break Free — Why It Speaks to Me

Queen's anthem hits something deep inside me — the longing to live without masks, and the grief of being shaped by what others wanted me to be.

There’s something hauntingly powerful about I Want to Break Free.

It’s not just about rebellion — it’s about liberation from the false self.
The self shaped by survival. The self built to be acceptable, lovable, good.

Freddie sings it with such sincerity, and underneath the upbeat melody is something far more human — a cry.

“I’ve fallen in love for the first time, and this time I know it’s for real.”

That line doesn’t sound like it’s only about romantic love.
It feels like a line from someone finally falling in love with themselves.

And then:

“I want to break free from your lies / You’re so self-satisfied, I don’t need you.”

That’s the part that hits hardest.
It brings up memories of being shaped by people — parents, especially — who told me who I was.
And when I resisted, when I showed a flicker of my real self, I was met with disdain or punishment.

It’s a song that reminds me that the journey to freedom is not just external. It’s internal.
And it’s not just joyful. It’s painful. Lonely. Confusing.
But worth it.

There’s grief in it, too — the grief of what’s been lost by living to please others.
But mostly, there’s a quiet power: I know who I am now. And I’m allowed to want more than what I was given.